Ever wonder if that girl is really into you? Well, being able to read the signs is just as vital as knowing if she likes you.
Today, we will be showing you 10 tell-tale signs that a girl might not like you as much as you think she does. We will also throw in some tips to help you deal with rejection. Life throws us unavoidable rejection sometimes. You must learn how to deal to keep your confidence up until you find the right girl.
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Signs She Does Not Like You
It is important to live life with balance. You need to know when you carry on putting in effort and when to cut your losses. By understanding the signs, you will know when it is time to move on.
If you think you can see one of the signs and change your behavior, you will notice two things. She either won’t respond to your change or bring it up and ask what is going on. If she notices, then you know she cares and is just going through a rough patch.
Now, let’s look at the signs.
1. She Doesn’t Break the Touch Barrier.
One of the first things a girl will do if she is into you is break the touch barrier. This shows that she is comfortable with you and wants to be close to you. If she wants you to touch her knee, shoulder, or arm, you are in the green. If she pulls away from you or doesn’t try and touch you, she is not as comfortable with you physically as you might think.
Don’t Mistake Lack of Interest With Shyness.
In the beginning, a girl might be shy. You can sense tension and timidity in a shy girl. A girl who does not like you will not put in the effort and isn’t nervous about presenting herself.
2. Read Her Body Language.
You can tell a lot by a girl’s body language. You can tell when she wants you closer or if she wants you to get away from her.
Sometimes, a girl might not come out and tell you that she is not interested. You need to look at her body language. Look for some of the classic signs such as:
- Folding arms.
- Hiding her hands.
- Pointing her feet towards anywhere else but yours.
- Pulling away from you.
3. You Are Doing All the Work.
If it feels like you are putting in all the effort to see each other, it’s another sign that you are not one of her priorities. She might be working, and you need to consider her work hours. With that said, if you are doing all the work, it often means that she does not care about your time or making time to see you.
4. She Never Texts or Calls First.
If a girl likes you, she will always look for an excuse to talk to you. She craves your presence and attention. This is a natural element of attraction and desire.
She doesn’t like you if she shows no desire to start a conversation
Have a look at your recent chat history and call log. Make a mental note of the ratio between how often you start a conversation and how often she does. If there is an obvious difference between you and her, you can tell that you are more interested in her than she is in you.
How to test this theory?
To see if she is really into you, cut down on the number of texts and calls that you start. If she notices and says something, she likes you. If she doesn’t notice or say anything, you know it is time to rethink your relationship.
5. She Cancels You Last Minute.
Girls do not often pass up the chance to get dressed up and show off. If she constantly cancels on you last minute, then there is a problem. This shows that she does not respect your time and does not want to make an effort to see you and spend quality time with you.
Life does happen
If she cancels you and this is not normal, do not worry too much about it. Life does happen, and sometimes things come up. If she seems genuinely apologetic and sounds like something serious has come up, show some sympathy.
6. She Shows No Interest.
A girl that likes you will take the time to get to know you. She will ask you questions about your day, your hobbies and try her best to show that she cares about creating an emotional bond with you. She would have a desire to get to know you on a deeper level.
If she does not show any interest in your life, past, family, or hobbies, she shows you signs that she does not like you.
7. She Looks and Sounds Bored.
When you are talking to a girl, listen to how she is responding to you. If her responses seem less than enthusiastic or don’t try and engage in the conversation, this might signify that she is not interested in you.
You can tell if a girl is into you because you can hear it in her voice in two main ways:
- She might speak louder and faster the more interested she is.
- She will answer you quickly and give you short answers.
You also need to read your body language for this sign as well. If she is on her phone or looks away when you talk, she is not interested in what you have to say.
Keep in mind
Sometimes you might bring up a topic that she just isn’t interested in. You cannot judge this sign through one conversation. Have a few conversations with her and see if she sounds bored with everything you say or just a few things. This will also help you determine what it is you both have in common.
8. She Doesn’t Flirt Back.
Flirting can be an art. Some guys get it, and some just don’t, but that is okay. When you try and flirt, and she isn’t playing around, teases you a little bit, or compliments your good qualities, she is not flirting back.
Signs she is not flirting
- She is not meet your tone with the same tone.
- She may say thank you for the compliment you gave her, but she doesn’t give one back.
- She doesn’t try to be sexy, naughty, or cute when she replies back.
9. The Friend Zone.
All guys dread the friend zone. Once a girl decides that she does not like you, she will send you straight to the friend zone. You can tell that you are there because she will constantly emphasize what an amazing friend you are.
She is not joking around or playing hard to get. Once you are in the friend zone, it is hard to get out of it.
10. Gives You Excuses for Not Wanting a Relationship.
This is the final tell-tale sign that she is not interested at all. She will give you an excuse for not wanting a relationship. There are two ways this can be done.
Letting You Down Gently
If she lets you down gently, she cares about your feelings and does not want to hurt you. She will give you excuses such as:
- I am not ready for a relationship now.
- You are a nice guy, so you deserve someone better.
- I just do not know what I want out of life right now.
These are not complete shutdowns. It just means that she is not ready yet or doesn’t want to hurt you. Respect her wishes and do not push the subject. Let her know that you appreciate her being honest with you.
She flat out says no.
A girl that does not care at all will flat out tell you that she is not interested. She doesn’t care about your feelings. She might be harsh but do not take it to heart. Think of it as dodging a bullet.
Quick Tips on How to Deal With Rejection
If you are rejected and can see she doesn’t like you, there are a few things you need to remember.
- Accept the rejection. She is not the right person for you.
- Don’t be disrespectful. Respect her choices and move on.
- It is not personal. Being rejected is not a sign that you are a bad person. You are just the wrong person for that girl.
- Don’t try to change her mind. This will make you look desperate and a bit of a creep.
- Realize rejection is normal. Being rejected is part of life. It is a way to get off the wrong path and find the right path to our forever relationship.
Now that you know the tell-tale signs of when a girl does not like you, you can go out and read the reaction from the girl that you like. You can see if she likes you or if you need to stop wasting your time and talent on someone who will never put in the same amount of effort that you do.
Always remember that shy girls do communicate differently to outgoing girls. Do not mistake shyness for being bored or disinterested.